UPDATE: As communities prepare to observe the Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20, 2023, the toll of violence against transgender and nonbinary individuals has reached a staggering 27 lives lost in just one year. This memorial serves not only to honor those who have tragically died but also to highlight the urgent need for societal change amid rising violence and discrimination.
This annual remembrance, which began in 1999 following the murders of two Black trans women in Massachusetts, will see vigils held globally. Activists will read the names of the deceased, bringing to light the harsh realities faced by the transgender community today. According to advocates, this year’s memorial takes on heightened significance as the Trump administration and conservative lawmakers have enacted policies that restrict transgender rights, including eliminating federal data collection on anti-trans violence.
The nonprofit Advocates for Trans Equality reports that the number of trans and nonbinary people killed is likely an undercount, as accurate data collection remains a challenge. Research indicates that trans individuals are over four times more likely to experience violent crime than their cisgender counterparts.
Gwendolyn Smith, a co-founder of the Transgender Day of Remembrance, emphasized the importance of remembering the vibrant lives of those lost: “In many ways, in our society, trans people are made to feel invisible.” This sentiment resonates deeply as families and friends come together to honor their loved ones.
Among the lives being remembered is Lia Smith, a talented student athlete and aspiring statistician at Middlebury College. Smith, who experienced the pressures of societal judgment against transgender individuals, was found dead last month, the victim of suicide after a prolonged struggle with acceptance in a climate hostile to her identity.
Another tragic story is that of Kelsey Elem, a 25-year-old model who was shot and killed in April. Known for her vibrant personality and passion for fashion, Elem’s life was cut short by violence from a supposed friend. Her mother reflected on Elem’s journey, saying, “She fought to be the woman and the queen that she was.”
The ballroom community mourns the loss of Karmin Wells, a celebrated figure known for her striking runway presence. Wells was fatally shot in her home just days before her 38th birthday, leaving friends and family heartbroken. Monica Hudson, who considered Wells a daughter, expressed profound grief, stating, “The world lost a gem.”
As the vigils approach, the stories of these individuals highlight not just the violence they faced but the joy they brought to those around them. The impact of their lives will be felt deeply in the gatherings this November 20.
As the Transgender Day of Remembrance draws near, communities are urged to come together to not only remember those lost but also to advocate for change—to push back against the stigma and violence that continues to threaten transgender lives.
For anyone feeling distressed, support is available. The 24-hour Suicide Crisis Lifeline can be reached by calling or texting 988.
Stay tuned for ongoing coverage as we honor these individuals and continue to advocate for justice and acknowledgment in the fight against anti-trans violence.
