UPDATE: In a bold move that is resonating with mothers everywhere, Kelly Hubbell, a 37-year-old mother of three, has departed her in-laws’ lake house in Northern New York five days earlier than planned. The decision, made during a taxing summer vacation, has ignited passionate discussions across social media.
Every summer, Hubbell and her children—aged 6, 4, and 2—travel from Portland, Oregon for a lengthy journey involving a five-hour flight, a two-hour drive, and a ferry ride. Despite the picturesque setting, Hubbell found this year’s trip particularly overwhelming.
“I was sick, my toddler had just learned to crawl, and routines were completely off,” Hubbell explained to Newsweek. The breaking point came during a long, exhausting BBQ, where she felt unsupported while managing her children. “I was maxed out,” she said.
Her decision to leave early was met with surprise, particularly from her husband, who ultimately supported her choice. Hubbell revealed the immense pressure many mothers face during family gatherings, stating, “I’ve often felt a quiet pressure to be the one who keeps the peace and doesn’t rock the boat.”
After sharing her experience on Instagram, her reel quickly drew thousands of views and sparked conversations about maternal mental health. Many mothers echoed her sentiments, expressing support and understanding. Comments poured in, with one user stating, “Congrats to you for being strong enough to know your mental health matters more than societal stigma.”
However, the post also ignited fierce debate, particularly from male commenters who suggested that mothers should remain silent and grateful. “Most of the harshest comments came from men,” Hubbell noted. “But I won’t be quiet. Every time I speak up, more moms message me to say, ‘Thank you for saying this out loud.’”
Hubbell’s experience has only reinforced her dedication to supporting mothers facing similar challenges. As the founder and CEO of Sage Haus, a company that helps families find household support, she emphasizes the importance of asking for help. “You are not failing because you need help,” she asserted. “You’re allowed to walk away. You’re allowed to protect your peace.”
This urgent conversation around maternal mental health is gaining momentum, as more mothers come forward to discuss the unspoken pressures they face. As the debate continues, many are encouraged to prioritize their well-being and advocate for their needs, signaling a shift in societal expectations of motherhood.
Stay tuned for updates on this developing story and the ongoing discourse surrounding parental support and mental health.
