John R. Nasto, who passed away on February 2, 2020, left behind a legacy of love and cherished memories. His son, Carl, reflects on their relationship and the profound impact of his father’s guidance, particularly on Carl’s wedding day.
A Wedding Day Memory
On November 7, 1987, Carl stood nervously behind the altar at his wedding, waiting for his bride, Catherine, and her father, Jack, to arrive. Officiating the ceremony was Father Jerry, Catherine’s first cousin, who had traveled from the Vatican to lend his support. To help ease Carl’s anxiety, Father Jerry suggested they play cards while they waited.
As the music began, signaling the arrival of Catherine and Jack, Carl took his place in the front pew. The moment was surreal: Jack, a proud World War II veteran who had fought on Utah Beach during the D-Day invasion, walked Catherine down the aisle. The sunlight streamed through the church’s stained-glass windows, creating a stunning backdrop for the couple’s journey towards matrimony.
A Grateful Son’s Reflection
Jack’s distinguished military service earned him the Legion of Honor medal from France, a mark of respect for his bravery and commitment. Carl recalls Jack’s strong handshake and massive hands, attributes that left a lasting impression. As he prepared to join Catherine and Jack at the altar, he remembered the significance of the moment.
Jack lifted Catherine’s veil, savoring the final moments of giving away his youngest daughter. Just as Carl moved toward them, Jack gently held him back, whispering, “Not yet, Carl.” This simple yet powerful advice became one of the most memorable pieces of guidance Carl received from his father.
Carl expresses deep gratitude for Jack’s influence, acknowledging how it shaped him into a man deemed worthy of marrying Catherine. He fondly remembers their shared journey, which continues to inspire him. Despite the grief stemming from John R. Nasto’s passing, Carl is making strides towards healing.
In his heartfelt tribute, Carl longs for one more conversation over a meal and espresso with his father. He expresses love for both John and his late mother, hoping they are together again. With strength and honor, Carl carries on, cherishing the memories and lessons imparted by his father.
To honor John R. Nasto’s memory, his family encourages the planting of a living memorial, symbolizing the enduring impact he had on their lives.
