The pro-life community mourns the loss of Lila Harmsen, a dedicated advocate whose efforts spanned decades, following her passing on July 31, 2023. Renowned for her unwavering commitment to the sanctity of life, Lila’s influence reached many in Fargo, Jamestown, and Grand Forks, where she championed the rights of the unborn and supported parents in crisis.
Lila’s journey in pro-life advocacy began in her childhood; she learned about the concept of abortion at just eight years old, an experience that profoundly impacted her. Throughout her life, she worked tirelessly to convey love and support to those facing difficult choices, embodying a spirit of compassion that drew people to her.
A Lifelong Mission of Compassion
Meeting Lila at a now-closed abortion facility in Fargo was a transformative experience. In her late 70s, she had already become a veteran in the ministry, balancing her efforts with jail ministry in her hometown of Valley City. While physically understated, her voice resonated with authority when she spoke of the value of every child. “When you leave here, your baby’s gone,” she often stated, emphasizing the irreversible nature of abortion.
Lila’s impact was tangible; she was credited with helping to save dozens of lives over the years. Her gentle, grandmotherly demeanor offered a non-threatening presence to individuals feeling vulnerable and scared. One notable instance included her jumping into a stranger’s car to guide a mother to the Women’s Care Center after she had decided against an abortion. “I couldn’t do it!” the mother exclaimed, demonstrating the profound influence of Lila’s presence.
“God created them for life, not for us to destroy them,” Lila once shared, reflecting on the losses she witnessed.
Legacy and Community Response
Following her death, the pro-life community expressed deep sorrow and gratitude for Lila’s contributions. Tragically, reports emerged of some abortion escorts celebrating her passing, a stark contrast to the love and compassion Lila embodied. Her legacy, however, is expected to endure, as her commitment inspired many others to continue advocating for the unborn.
In a heartfelt tribute, supporters echoed the words of St. Paul: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Lila Harmsen’s work, marked by unwavering determination and profound empathy, has left an indelible mark on the lives she touched, and her absence will be felt deeply within the community.
As the pro-life movement reflects on her life, many are reminded of the enduring need for compassion and advocacy in the face of difficult decisions. Lila’s spirit will continue to inspire those who fight for the dignity of every life.
