A personal narrative by Tara Slater sheds light on how diverse religious backgrounds can foster unexpected connections and community support. Slater, who grew up in a household with a Catholic father and a Mormon mother, reflects on her upbringing and the lessons learned about faith and acceptance. Her story, featured by The Post-Standard/Syracuse.com and coordinated with InterFaith Works of CNY, highlights the importance of understanding and embracing different beliefs.
Growing Up Between Two Faiths
In her childhood home, the presence of two distinct religions often led to humorous and poignant moments. Slater recalls instances when her father would call for her and her siblings to hide whenever Mormon missionaries visited their home. “Quick – DUCK!” he would shout, signaling a light-hearted retreat from the door.
Years later, as Slater prepared to travel abroad, her mother shared a heartfelt message that would resonate deeply. She asked Slater to remember that if she ever found herself in trouble, she should seek out a Mormon church and mention her mother’s membership. Initially baffled, Slater struggled to reconcile her childhood experiences with her mother’s faith in the community. “Mom, I haven’t been to church with you since I was seven, why do you think they’d even let me in?” she questioned.
A Lesson in Faith and Community
Her mother assured her that she would be welcomed. “They will,” she responded confidently, expressing her belief in the kindness of the church community. Slater found herself reflecting on the contrast between her childhood fears and her mother’s unwavering faith in the goodness of others. The memories of hiding from the missionaries gave way to a new understanding of connection and support that transcended their differences.
Although Slater never needed to seek help from the Church of Latter-Day Saints while abroad, she often drives past her mother’s church today. With her mother no longer present, she contemplates visiting to express gratitude for the joy and support the community provided throughout her mother’s life. “I may stop in one day to thank them for filling all her Sundays with joy,” she shares, acknowledging the lasting impact of her mother’s faith on their family.
Currently, Slater balances multiple roles, working at Syracuse University and serving as a House Director for a local sorority chapter. She is also involved with InterFaith Works of CNY, where she contributes to fostering understanding among diverse communities. Her experiences highlight the importance of compassion, acceptance, and the connections that can emerge even from seemingly opposing beliefs.
This narrative serves as a reminder of the profound influence of community and faith in our lives, illustrating how understanding and kindness can bridge gaps between different cultures and beliefs.
