UPDATE: A recent advice column by Eric Thomas is igniting discussions about gratitude and social etiquette as readers share their own experiences. This column addresses pressing issues like thank-you notes, wedding invitations, and burial plans.
The article, published earlier today in Philadelphia, features a letter from an aunt and uncle who are questioning the etiquette surrounding their financial support for a niece’s college education. After sending a generous $2,000 for her first semester, the couple received only a minimal acknowledgment—a thank-you text from the niece, but not from the student herself.
“Now it is July, and we have received nothing from the girl,” they wrote, expressing frustration over whether to continue their financial support. Thomas emphasized that the student should indeed be sending thank-you notes unprompted, highlighting the importance of acknowledgment in relationships.
In a developing story, Thomas advises the couple to directly address the issue with the student, resetting expectations for future interactions. He states,
“We’re happy to give this money, but it’s important that when people do nice things for you, you acknowledge them.”
Meanwhile, another letter from a bride planning an outdoor wedding raises similar concerns about etiquette and obligation. She is hesitant about inviting an old friend with mobility issues to a location that requires a six-hour drive and ferry access. Thomas encourages this bride to communicate openly, saying,
“Honesty can be so kind.”
He suggests providing the full details about the wedding logistics, allowing the friend to make an informed decision without feeling pressured.
In related news, a response to a previous inquiry regarding burial plans highlights the importance of pre-planning. A clergy member shared insights from 55 years of experience, advocating for clear communication with a funeral director to ensure wishes are documented and honored.
These conversations are resonating with many, prompting people to reflect on their own experiences with gratitude, obligation, and planning for the future.
As discussions continue, readers are encouraged to share their thoughts and personal stories on these pressing social issues. The importance of gratitude and clear communication remains a vital topic in today’s interconnected world.
For those interested in submitting questions or seeking advice, contact Eric Thomas at [email protected] or via his social media platforms. Stay tuned for more updates on this evolving conversation.
