UPDATE: A single mom and her daughter are thriving in Bangkok, Thailand, after relocating from the US just months ago. Donetta Barber, 39, and her 9-year-old daughter Maleah made the move in July 2023, seeking a slower, more affordable lifestyle that has brought them closer than ever.
Barber, who previously ran a business in Fresno, California, was inspired to leave the US after spending time in Costa Rica during the pandemic. “Moving abroad was something I always wanted to do, but I was scared,” she told Business Insider. However, seeing others thrive abroad motivated her to take the leap.
The decision to relocate was solidified when Barber noticed the Destination Thailand Visa program aimed at digital nomads, introduced in 2024. This five-year visa caters to remote workers and individuals interested in cultural activities. Barber and Maleah are now part of this growing trend of expats in Thailand.
In their new life, the pair has settled into a spacious two-bedroom apartment with ample natural light for 37,000 Thai baht (approximately $1,150). Barber sticks to a monthly budget of 80,000 Thai baht (around $2,500), allowing her to track spending in a city where everything feels affordable.
The change has had a profound emotional impact on both. One morning, Maleah expressed her gratitude, saying, “Mommy, thank you for moving us to Thailand. I’m just so grateful for this experience.” This heartfelt moment reassured Barber that her choice was the right one.
Barber has embraced the slower pace of life in Bangkok, which allows her to focus on her daughter and their well-being. “I’ve learned to go with the flow,” she said, enjoying spontaneous outings and self-care days. Their apartment’s proximity to public transport and popular night markets enhances their exploration of the city.
Despite some cultural adjustments, including crowded public transport and occasional uncomfortable encounters, Barber highlights the warmth and kindness of the Thai people. “I love that Thai people are so nice and we get to do a lot more things that we didn’t in the US,” Maleah added, noting the safety they feel while out and about.
Barber has also found community support through social media groups and has created a network for children to foster friendships. “I’m truly living what they call the soft girl era,” she remarked, acknowledging her improved mental clarity and quality time with Maleah.
As the world looks to Thailand for new opportunities, Barber and her daughter are living proof of the benefits of embracing change. Their story underscores the growing trend of relocating for a better quality of life—something many are considering in the wake of shifting global dynamics.
Stay tuned for more developing stories about expats finding new homes worldwide.
