Richard Gere emphasizes the importance of kindness as the core lesson he wishes to impart to his children, a philosophy shaped by his long-standing friendship with the Dalai Lama. In a recent interview with People, Gere, 76, shared insights that reflect his deep commitment to Buddhist principles, which he has practiced since 1978.
The actor, known for his roles in films such as “Pretty Woman,” has three sons: one with his ex-wife, Carey Lowell, and two with his current wife, Alejandra Silva. Gere believes that teaching children to be kind can significantly impact their lives and the world around them. He recounted a transformative conversation involving a couple who sought guidance from the Dalai Lama about parenting.
“You show kindness. That’s the best thing you can do,” Gere stated. He was moved by the Dalai Lama’s advice during a discussion where the spiritual leader suggested that parents should teach their children to be compassionate even towards insects, creatures often overlooked and mistreated. Gere recalled the Dalai Lama’s words:
“Teach them to be kind to insects, whom normally people don’t think well of and step on.”
This lesson, he believes, extends beyond simple empathy and encourages a broader respect for all life.
Gere’s journey in Buddhism began in his twenties, a phase marked by existential questions about purpose and meaning. Reflecting on that time, he shared, “I think a lot of people in their 20s go through that,” as they grapple with profound questions about existence. His spiritual exploration has guided his parenting style, further enriched by his connection with the Dalai Lama.
In October 2024, Gere served as a producer for “Wisdom of Happiness,” a documentary that highlights the teachings and insights of the Dalai Lama. The film premiered at the Zurich Film Festival, showcasing Gere’s commitment not only to Buddhism but also to sharing its messages with a wider audience.
Gere first met the Dalai Lama in the foothills of the Himalayas, where the spiritual leader resides in exile. His initial impression was one of simplicity and authenticity. He described their interaction as similar to conversing with a beloved family member or a cherished mentor, stating,
“Even from the first time I met him, he’s completely simple and direct and honest.”
This genuine connection has profoundly influenced Gere’s views on life and parenting.
As he continues to raise his children, Gere remains dedicated to instilling values that prioritize kindness and respect for all beings. His life lessons, shaped by years of friendship with the Dalai Lama, serve as a reminder of the significance of compassion in today’s world. Through his own experiences and the teachings of his spiritual mentor, Gere aims to nurture a future generation that embraces kindness as a guiding principle.
